Mom refuses to pay babysitter $16/hour rate for 8 hour day, gets offended when she quits the job: 'She has been saying I'm unprofessional'

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  • A young woman sits at a kitchen table, pouring a jar of cereal into the bowl of a little girl sitting beside her
  • Am I wrong for quitting a babysitting job on the spot after the mom insulted me?

    I (22F) have been babysitting for a family every weekday morning for an hour. I take care of two kids, get them ready, and drop them off at school using Uber. I charge $16/hour and I've often stayed a bit longer without charging extra.
  • Recently the mom asked if I could babysit from 7:30 AM to 3:30 PM during the kid's break. I said I'd be more than happy, she asked about the rate and I said my rate would stay the same, $16/hour.
  • She said we should talk a flat rate for the entire day instead. I suggested that since it's about 8 hours I could do the whole day for $115. She immediately said I was taking advantage of the situation and said she would only pay $50 for the entire day .When I said that doesn't work for me she started yelling and said I was greedy, along with some really harsh personal comments about my appearance that felt completely unnecessary.
  • I told her I wouldn't be continuing at all, quit on the spot, and left. Since then, she has been constantly texting me saying I'm unprofessional and that I didn't give them any notice to find someone else among other things. I told her I won't be returning.
  • Am I overreacting for quitting and refusing to go back?
  • A young woman touches the hair of a little girl while they both sit at a kitchen table
  • Emergency-Minute-112 No, as a childcare giver myself i wish more babysitters/nannies would stand up for themselves like you did.
  • Helpful-Alligator Of course not. You determine what kind of treatment you allow.
  • seamonstre if she doesn't want to pay you a professional rate then she doesn't get to expect 'professional' behavior out of you. NOR
  • HagathaPathetica NOR: at $115, you basically gave her an hour for free. If she didn't want to pay $16 an hour, she should have said, "let me think about it." And tried to find someone cheaper. Idk why she got mad at you for this, especially when she already knew your rate, but even if she hadn't, no reason to yell at you!
  • sitnquiet Lol she FAd, and now she's FOing. Maybe it will teach her to be kinder and more gracious to people. But I doubt it. NOR. $6/hour for two kids is absurd.
  • One_Entrepreneur_520 You did the right thing. Next time she texts you tell her you would be willing to be a reference for her next babysitter.
  • Rude_Kaleidoscope641 NOR and i absolutely LOVE that you have a sense of your self worth!!! I'd tell my the mom her behavior is immature and unacceptable.
  • ww_adh77 That's awful. Your daily rate was completely reasonable given what you make per hour. Your time is valuable. You could certainly babysit for others willing to pay what you're asking. And, judging from this toxic exchange, I hope that you do! Good luck.
  • Low_Recognition_1557 NOR. Your price is your price. Just because you're not in her budget doesn't make it unreasonable.
  • sukki_ricecake719 NOR more like she was trying to take advantage of the situation. asking for a flat rate.
  • Elegant-Opinion-9595 NOR: So ahe thinks ypu should be ok getting paid $6 25 an hour? Yeah, walk away from her.

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